{"id":1493,"date":"2013-11-26T08:34:45","date_gmt":"2013-11-26T12:34:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dankrell.com\/blog\/?p=1493"},"modified":"2021-11-23T17:31:32","modified_gmt":"2021-11-23T22:31:32","slug":"increasing-anger-about-real-estate-issues","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dankrell.com\/blog\/2013\/11\/26\/increasing-anger-about-real-estate-issues\/","title":{"rendered":"Increasing anger about real estate issues"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"real<\/a>What’s behind the increasing anger about real estate issues?<\/h1>\n

Did you know there is an anger epidemic in the U.S.? Dan Bowens of Fox 5 <\/a>(New York) cited a USA Today study indicating that 60% of American adults polled reported they had angry or irritable feelings \u2013 which is a 50% increase from a 2011 poll. And if you are in a service industry, such as a real estate, you not only encounter the occasional obstinate client; but you can also find yourself engaged with bullies.<\/p>\n

by Dan Krell<\/a> \u00a9 2013<\/h3>\n

According to the American Psychological Association<\/a> (apa.org), \u201cAnger is an emotion characterized by antagonism toward someone or something you feel has deliberately done you wrong.\u201d Anger can be used constructively to solve problems, but it can also cause problems that can interfere with thinking and \u201c\u2026harm your physical and mental health…\u201d<\/p>\n

Anger was common when the market declined: Many home owners were irate about deflated home values; many other home owners were outraged about their underwater mortgages, while others were furious about lenders foreclosing on homes. In fact, it was common to see foreclosures that were trashed by the owners as a way to express their anger.<\/p>\n

Anger was also common as the market strengthened<\/a>: Home sellers were irritated by buyer push back on price. Many home buyers were frustrated about multiple offer situations on some homes; while a few buyers were aggravated by the notion that they were no longer able to purchase foreclosures at steep discounts.<\/p>\n

Regardless of the reasons for America\u2019s reported increase in anger, the issue really isn\u2019t the anger<\/a> per se; anger is a useful emotion that can be productive. But rather, anger seems to be increasingly manifesting in irrational and aggressive means \u2013 even in the real estate industry.<\/p>\n

A recent edition of Realtor\u00ae Magazine <\/a>(Daily Real Estate News; October 20, 2013) reported that there are increasing incidents of physical assaults of real estate agents; attacks have been reported in model homes, open houses, as well as in their offices. Although these acts of physical aggression are increasing; the article did not report or discuss the more common verbal aggression, which includes threats and intimidation.<\/p>\n

Anyone can get caught up in their anger and cross a line; agents, clients, neighbors, and even those who are engaged in a seemingly noble neighborhood cause are not immune. Fortunately, anger can be short lived and resolved; however, if the anger becomes all consuming \u2013 it may be time for mental health intervention.<\/p>\n

The anger statistics didn\u2019t surprise me. It seems as if we can find something to be angry about if we want to. However, it may be worthwhile, especially those who have been chronically angry and have lashed out at those who do not acquiesce or comply, to let go and be thankful for the good in our lives.<\/p>\n

Goal Auzeen Saedi, Ph.D.<\/a> sums it well (Why Are We Americans So Angry? Psychology Today; Millennial Media; April 30, 2013): \u201cBut what do we do with all of this anger? We let go. We forgive. We meditate and pray. We surround ourselves with loved ones\u2026There are parts of all of us that could be made softer and kinder. We can learn to see the good in each of us that exists and teach our children to do so. Or we can continue to get angry, bully each other, make threats and demands. It is our choice.<\/p>\n

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\nDisclaimer<\/a>.\u00a0 This article is not intended to provide nor should it be relied upon for legal and financial advice. Readers should not rely solely on the information contained herein, as it does not purport to be comprehensive or render specific advice.\u00a0 Readers should consult with an attorney regarding local real estate laws and customs as they vary by state and jurisdiction.\u00a0 This article was originally published the week of November 25, 2013 (Montgomery County Sentinel). Using this article without permission is a violation of copyright laws. Copyright \u00a9 2013 Dan Krell.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

What’s behind the increasing anger about real estate issues? Did you know there is an anger epidemic in the U.S.? Dan Bowens of Fox 5 (New York) cited a USA Today study indicating that 60% of American adults polled reported they had angry or irritable feelings \u2013 which is a 50% increase from a 2011 … <\/p>\n

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