Hiring family to sell your home: A relative experience

by Dan Krell © 2010

The thought of hiring a real estate agent can be unnerving, let alone the fact that you might have to consider hiring a family member to act as your listing agent. For some, familial pressure to hire a relative could be intense and may be a potential source of conflict; while for others, no one but “Cousin Jerry” would be considered to list their home.

Some people are ambivalent about hiring relatives for any service, let alone for a real estate transaction; they believe that mixing business with family matters is not a good idea. Besides asserting discretion over their business and financial dealings, these folks know that family ties and relationships could be at stake if the sale doesn’t go as expected. They do not want family matters or guilt to interfere with business decisions, especially if they feel a need to fire their real estate agent or even seek recourse.

Still many people do not have a second thought about hiring their “Cousin Jerry” as their listing agent. Besides feeling an expectation to do so, some people cite a comfort level and trust that exists from their long time relationship (which can be hard to come by when working with a stranger).

Many experts agree that it is not a good idea to hire a relative who is inexperienced and/or has a record of poor performance. So if you plan to hire a relative to list your home, consider that practicing real estate can sometimes be difficult even for a seasoned professional, let alone someone who is new to the field and/or is a part-time practitioner.

Believe it or not, the issue of commission is typically secondary when it comes to hiring a relative to list a home. Don’t expect to pay the least amount of commission if you plan to hire “Cousin Jerry” to list your home; he may be directed by his broker on commission negotiation. The fact is that most real estate agents are negotiable when it comes to commissions and you might find a better deal from someone else.

If you’re intent on “keeping it in the family” consider interviewing “Cousin Jerry” as you would any other real estate agent; become familiar with “Cousin Jerry’s” license and experience. Although “Cousin Jerry” may have a real estate license, it may not be in the jurisdiction where your home is located. However, if his license is within the proper jurisdiction- he may not be experienced in the local market.

“Cousin Jerry’s” lack of local market experience could jeopardize your sale by not providing the proper disclosures and understanding the various contracts of sale. Seller disclosures requirements may vary depending which county/city your home is located; even full time agents have a difficult time staying on top of county differences in seller disclosures. Additionally, “Cousin Jerry” should be careful to pay attention local agent etiquette, as potential buyers could be turned away.

If you want to work with “Cousin Jerry” but want to mitigate family interference, a couple of alternatives you might consider include: having “Cousin Jerry” refer you to an experienced local agent for a referral fee (so he is indirectly involved); or, have “Cousin Jerry” work in tandem with an experienced local agent so a professional can act as a buffer from family matters.

This article is not intended to provide nor should it be relied upon for legal and financial advice. This article was originally published in the Montgomery County Sentinel the week of July 19, 2010. Using this article without permission is a violation of copyright laws. Copyright © 2010 Dan Krell.

Who’s looking out for your interests?

by Dan Krell © 2010


When people buy and sell real estate, they entrust professionals they hire with some of their most sensitive information, at times when they are most vulnerable, with the expectation that the professional act in their best interest. The Maryland Real Estate Commission’s form, “Understanding Whom Real Estate Agents Represent,” reminds consumers that the ultimate responsibility of protecting their interests falls on their shoulders. Although the form itself is used to assist consumers in understanding the duties and loyalties of real estate agents in various forms of agency relationships (e.g., a listing agent’s “duty of loyalty” is to the home seller, a buyer’s agent is expected to negotiate “in the best interests of the [home] buyer,” etc.); the paragraph on page two gives consumers the reminder that to protect their interests, they should read all documents carefully and to seek legal advice from an attorney and financial advice from an accountant.

The consumer reminder might be taken as somewhat of a warning that real estate can sometimes be a dirty business. It is true that most real estate practitioners operate within the law and ethical guidelines, however some do not. It is reasonable to think that recent economic conditions purged the industry of bad elements, think again. Some actions are egregious and are clearly intended to defraud the public; while other actions may appear to be innocuous, but could be construed as deceitful business practices.

Blatant scams are devised every day to appear to be legitimate but have the intention of exploiting the public; recent examples include the rise of foreclosure relief scams across the country. Unfortunately, some of these cons are not always obvious until law enforcement catches up to the perpetrators. Take for example the recent indictment of a Towson, MD title company president who allegedly did not send payoffs to existing mortgage and lien holders and allegedly transferred the funds for his personal use (www.justice.gov/usao/md/Public-Affairs/press_releases/press10a.htm).

Even business tactics that seem harmless, but can have detrimental effects, are sometimes used by real estate agents. One example is overvaluing a home by estate agents just to get a listing. This occurs with the intention to later “convince” the seller to lower the price (the effects of purposefully over pricing a home in a downward market can cost the home seller money). Another example is akin to a “bait and switch:” this agent advertises a fictitious home at such a low price it gets home buyers to call him. When I called on behalf of my client to view the advertised home, the agent told me that the advertisement is for informational purposes only.

Before you hire a real estate professional (including real estate agents) it is always a good idea to check out their licensing credentials, as you can sometimes run across someone who is not licensed; Maryland licensing agencies allow consumers to check a professional’s license status online. Many consumer advocates recommend that before you hire a professional you should interview several and ask for recent client references.

Who are you trusting with your real estate transaction and what are they telling you? The old saying that “if it sounds too good to be true, it probably is” may be true, but it is ultimately up to you to decide. Remember that the ultimate responsibility to protect your interests falls on your shoulders.

This article is not intended to provide nor should it be relied upon for legal and financial advice. This article was originally published in the Montgomery County Sentinel the week of July 5, 2010. Using this article without permission is a violation of copyright laws. Copyright © 2010 Dan Krell.

With all due respect, Mr. Trump…

by Dan Krell © 2010

Dear Mr. Trump,

I enjoy watching your interviews and often listen intently to what you have to say. And although, you’ll have to forgive me because I do not follow your hit TV show, “The Apprentice,” I always find your appearances entertaining and sometimes educational. I even caught your recent interview by Joan Rivers (on her TV Land show, “How’d You Get So Rich?”); I’m always intrigued about real estate.

Of course, I can appreciate the point you made during the interview (which is the point you have been making for some time now) – it is a great time to buy real estate.

Mr. Trump, you do have a magic touch, there’s no doubt. So, naturally you caught my attention when you disclosed on national TV that your company purchased land along the Potomac River (mentioning a golf course). So of course, I wondered if the project was in MD, DC, or VA.

Lo and behold- I found that the public records indeed indicated that there was a purchase by your company. What a beautiful piece of land. There is a golf club, of course, and it is right on the on the Potomac River… in Sterling, VA!?

…Really?

With all due respect, Mr. Trump, if you want the opportunity to buy some great real estate and make some deals- why not here in Maryland? After all, there are plenty of deals and development opportunities– some even along the Potomac River, just minutes from DC!

So, Mr. Trump…I’m waiting for your call to see if we can do business (my contact information is on my website: www.dankrell.com). However, if it turns out we can’t- it’s all good! I’ll just catch your next interview.

All the best…

This article is not intended to provide nor should it be relied upon for legal and financial advice. Using this article without permission is a violation of copyright laws. Copyright © 2010 Dan Krell

Coping with the stress of the real estate transaction

Unless you are under the care of a psychiatrist prescribing you Valium, “stress free” is not something that comes to mind when describing real estate. According to the American Institute of Stress (stress.org), stress is subjective and can originate from negative and positive experiences.

On the “Holmes-Rahe Social Readjustment Rating Scale” otherwise known as the Holmes and Rahe Stress Scale (Holmes & Rahe 1967), having a mortgage over $10,000 rates 31 (just above being foreclosed upon) and moving is rated as 20. This commonly used stress scale (which rates life events to determine risk of illness) is cumulative, so the rating for buying a home is at least 51. Your stress level obviously increases when you add in other life stressors such as (but not limited to): getting divorced (73); getting married (50); having a baby (39); changing careers (36).

The reason why buying a home may rate so high on the Stress Scale is that, unlike other transactions, buying (and selling) a home is a large emotional investment! Gordon Gekko, from Oliver Stone’s Wall Street, was on to something when he said, “don’t get emotional [over stock], it clouds your judgment.” Emotions often become amplified when stress increases and can interfere with judgment.

Although most real estate agents don’t understand stress (what it is or how it’s reduced), it does not stop them from lecturing and blogging about “reducing stress” during the home buying or selling process. Being prepared and dividing the buying/selling process into segments is common advice and makes sense. This guidance often helps buyers and sellers feel a sense of “control” by understanding what to expect. However, the wonderful thing about real estate is that every transaction presents a new set of personalities, conditions, and (sometimes) problems. Reactions among buyers and sellers, as well as real estate agents, vary depending on their personalities and life circumstances. So no matter how much you plan, prepare, and visualize what it may be like, stress can be produced just by going through the process (created by both positive and negative feelings).

For some, being prepared is enough to help them anticipate and deal with most circumstances that may arise; while for others, the act of preparation may actually increase stress. Emotional factors, often based on needs and fears, can play a key role in your stress levels. Sometimes your needs are beyond your control and can increase your stress level, such as the need to stick to stringent timelines. And sometimes your needs can adapt and change which can mitigates your stress, such as finding the “perfect home.”

Fears about the outcome of the transaction can increase your stress, especially if you’re a first time home buyer. Common buyer fears include mortgage approvals and rising interest rates; sometimes buyers fear that the home inspection may reveal problems with the home. Common home seller fears include the home buyer’s qualifications and the ability to consummate the sale.

Good real estate agents know how to address the needs and fears of the real estate transaction to keep stress levels in check. Regardless, some people may turn to self help, “pop” or common stress reduction techniques (such as meditation); and if the stress is overwhelming, it wouldn’t hurt consulting with your physician or a qualified mental health professional – especially if you’re already stressed by your job, family and other life stress.

This article is not intended to provide nor should it be relied upon for legal and financial advice. Permission to use this article is by written consent only.

By Dan Krell
Copyright © 2010

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by Dan Krell &copy 2009
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Consulting the stars to buy a home

Before buying or selling a home, some people will consult a Realtor to understand market trend analyses, economic analyses and employment data. For a fresh approach to home buying/selling and real estate investing, some will consult with an astrologer (before meeting with their Realtor). Astrology has been used for many years to assist people in making business and financial decisions as well as attempting to predict future trends.

According to the American Federation of Astrologers (AFA), astrology has been practiced for over 4,000 years. It is considered an art by some, science by others, and mocked by many. Reported past followers of astrology include Plato, Copernicus, and Sir Isaac Newton. Former First Lady Nancy Reagan made headlines when she consulted with astrologers. Because there is a wide range of opinion, the AFA has stated that “few other topics stimulate as much debate as astrology.” The AFA conducts research and compiles data to better the practice of astrology. The AFA also established a code of ethics and provides accreditation to astrologers (astrologers.com).

The art/science of astrology is practiced by calculating and reading natal charts; each natal chart is exclusive to each person’s rising sign, planets, and houses. An individual’s natal chart is read to interpret and understand past and future influences on a person’s life, including (but not limited to) business, finances, relationships. Businesses owners sometimes use astrological charts to help time entering into contracts, expansion, and hiring.

Why rely on a real estate expert when you can consult the heavens? Having an astrologer read your natal chart can help you understand and choose the best timing for buying a home as it relates to your life events. Depending on your chart, the astrologer may determine that buying during a certain period of time may be best to avoid negative influences. Additionally, an astrologer may even determine the type of home that may be best for you as well its surroundings.

Some astrologers have actually claimed that they predicted the decline of the real estate market. In his book, Cosmic Trends, Philip Brown predicts future trends by studying celestial and historical cycles. Published in 2006, Brown described emerging astrological signs that were not seen since the 1930’s. Special attention is given to Cancer, which Brown describes as representing homes and real estate.

In 2008, Lloyd A. Wright, AMAFA wrote “The Catastrophic Eclipse of the Real Estate Bubble,” which describes the effects of lunar and solar eclipses to the relative positions of Saturn (land and real estate), Jupiter (money), and the moon (the public) during 2007. Prior to the lunar eclipse of October 24, 2007, he stated that the real estate market was relatively stable. However afterward, he described the markets as beginning to tumble (astrologers.com).

Although some astrologers may say that we are bound to our fates by karma, most astrologers will explain that we have free will that can be enhanced by reading our natal charts. Astrology is not exact, so it easy to misunderstand the intent and use of the field in one’s life.

Although often ridiculed, astrology is frequently misunderstood. However according to astrological practitioners, real estate market trends are not just associated with economic data – they may also be related to heavenly cycles and events.

This column is not intended to provide nor should it be relied upon for legal and financial advice. This article was originally published in the Montgomery County Sentinel the week of July 27, 2009. Copyright © 2009 Dan Krell.